When you know that you are making choices to make life better, it can be a very difficult battle. You want to spend time with someone, but you know it may be misleading so you sacrifice the time. If you are a sexual person, you have to step back cause every heartbroken creates an enemy.
I know that if I change those habits that have created the "monster" that I do not want in the closet anymore; I have to make the difficult decisions. I am making them, so you have to give a little time to appreciate the "better" person I am becoming. Consistency leads to stability.